SEX EDUCATION, AT YOUR PACE
Start with
your questions.
Six guides to consent, bodies, relationships, sexual health, and access. Read in any order, on your own or with a partner.
Consent
Consent & communication
Consent is a freely made, specific, ongoing agreement. The way you communicate it can be personal; the need for a clear choice stays the same.
Open the guideBodies
Bodies & pleasure
Knowing the words for your body can help you ask questions, communicate preferences, and describe what feels comfortable. There is no single body or response that everyone has to match.
Open the guideSexual health
Safer sex & sexual health
Safer sex brings together consent, communication, barriers, contraception when relevant, and testing. It is something partners can discuss and plan together.
Open the guideAccess
Comfort, energy & sensory needs
Access needs belong in conversations about intimacy. Timing, support, privacy, sensation, and communication can all affect what works for you.
Open the guideProducts
Sex toys, design & care
Start with what you want a product to make easier. Reach, grip, weight, controls, cleaning, and charging are often more useful questions than a long list of settings.
Open the guideSexual health
Healthcare & support
Sexual health appointments are a place to ask about your own circumstances. You can prepare questions and request the communication and access support that helps you take part.
Open the guidePut it into words.
Use a conversation plan, an access checklist, or appointment questions to make the information your own.